OUR GREAT LOSS: MYDEAREST MOTHER...



Dear All,We have lost my dearest mother, Necla Kepsüt Özışıklıoğlu, physically on 18th October, 2011. She had been my idol since my childhood. Her patience, her wonderful life philosophy and skills, her kind and helpful heart towards all the beings and her great sensitivity! It was such a huge sensitivity and empathy that  never putting herself  to the list of priority. Always collaborating and guiding as far as she could!

She had graduated from the "Sewing" Department of "Vocational High School of Balıkesir" in 1949 with honours degree and had been recommended by the administration to attend to the "Ankara Girls' Technical School High School". However, due to the circumstances she had not been able to attend there and instead she had to support her family through sewing. Her Engagement Ceremony Dress, her wedding dress, suits of her husband and all the dresses and coats of her children... She was a real artist. She used to spend her days and nights to work (to sew) for her lovelies. Her dream was to be a teacher, but she had seen that only her dreams until she passed away. Instead, she had guided us_my sister and I_ to be teachers. We are thankful and grateful to her also for that. We love our profession and try to be like her. 
We  pray to Allah to grant our strength to bear this loss though no words can lessen the pain and grief we are undergoing. Yet, we are very well aware that this was the only solution to end the suffering of her. We pray, may the departed soul rest in peace.

It was great to have wonderful mails from my dosts everywhere. Thank you all. I wanted to share a few. Love and peace...

Hayal Köksal

Dear All
Let us all pray for the departed soul to rest in PEACE.
May GOD give strength to the family of Dr. Hayal Koksal to bear the loss of her mother.
I share my heartfelt condolances at this saddend moment.
Dheeraj Mehrotra, India  

My dearest dearest Dost, I am so sorry to hear about your immense loss.  Your Mum is indeed with the angels now.  You can rest assured that you were a good and faithful daughter to her, through all the difficulties.  You did all that you could, and more.  You loved your Mum deeply through her last moment on this earth.  I know how painful this is, Hayal.  My Mum suffered severe dementia and she went through a similar ending time, and I was with her until the very end.  

WIth great love and hugs to you and my Brother,

Jay Bonstingl, USA

Dearest Hayal Ma'am, 

I express my heartfelt  condolences  on the sad demise of your  mother. 
May her soul rest in peace and  pray to the Almighty to grant  you strength in this hour of grief. With regards,
FROM CMS FAMILY, INDIA

"Our love and support will always be here for you."
Our deepest sympathy and condolences from the core of the heart.

May GOD bless her.

Syed and Anjanie Ali, USA

If she was anything like you, then yes she must be (an angel).

David Hutchins, UK

May GOD give strength to the family of Dr. Hayal Koksal to bear the loss of
her mother. I share my heartfelt condolances at this saddend moment.
Dheeraj Mehrotra

Life is a mortal being with death as its ultimate destiny albeit
unknown when. I am deeply shocked with the news and helplessly wish
God to give strength to bereaved family and May her soul rest in
peace.
PC Bihari

Hayal,

You have my deepest sympathies.

Richard Ennals
Kingston University, UK

Dear Dr. Hayal Köksal,

I have just heard about your dear Mom.  I am so sorry and I want you to know I am thinking of you and what you and your family must be going through right now. Please accept my condolences...... I can only imagine how difficult this must be for you.

Please Be assured of our Prayers for the progress of her soul in all the realms above...!!
Tina Olyai, India

Dearest Hayal,

I would like to express my deep heartfelt condolences to you and your family. I had similar fate 10 years ago. Perhaps I can feel you.
We are all with you at these moments of grief and sorrow. I pray for the departed soul to rest in peace and wish you strength and patience.
Again with sincere condolences and deep sorrow,
Hesam Aref Kashfi, Iran

Dearest Hayal,

I just read that your mother has passed away. Both Nvard and I are very sorry to hear about this and would like to send you, Servet and your families our deepest sympathies and condolences. We are thinking about you at this time. If there is anything we can do, please do not hesitate to contact us.
With lots of love,
Paresh and Nvard, Kingston, UK

My thoughts are with you at this horrible and sad moment. Much love,
Chris Ford, Kingston, UK 

Dear hayal 

I'm really very very sorry to hear of the terrible loss. A mother place's place can never be replaced by anyone in the world except God. May you find the strength to go thru this difficult time with courage.
With condolences and prayers . 
Rani Kakshapati, India 

Dearest Hayal and Servet,

I am late in coming to put my "arms around you" and share in the grieving for the loss of your mother. I can only imagine the sadness.   Losing my mother is one the the things I know will hurt to the core and I know you must be feeling the same.  I was fortunate to meet your mother and experience her sweet spirit.  The songwriter Irving Berlin said: "The song is ended, but the melody lingers on."  What she has given to the people around her will live on.I send my prayers with her and to you. 
With love and blessings,
Leslie Janoe, USA

Our deepest-felt condolences, dearest Hayal!

We are with you, profoundly and lovingly, in spirit, at the loss of your mother.
We look forward to the moment when we can sit together and listen to you sharing of what happened and of how you feel.
We hold your hand in spirit, we send you all our love, in deepest connection and love, wishing you and dear Servet all the strength you need in this difficult situation!
Evelin Lindner & Linda Hartling, HumanDHS, USA